Sunday, October 05, 2008
Saturday, October 04, 2008
Thursday, October 02, 2008
I loooove my wall sconces. :) The candle light from them gives the house a warm and cozy feel. Tonight we lit the candles and also burned a candle that is scented "birthday cake". It smelled so yummy and I noticed there was a fall atmosphere in the air. My camera doesn't do it justice-sort of blurry-I had to put a setting on it that turned the flash off, because otherwise it looked like daylight and you couldn't see the natural glow from the candles.
Sunday, September 28, 2008

I love this picture. I was thinking of putting it up there in my header because the spray can colors sort of make it seem as if I painted the 'Shari's Blog' title with them. I put it up there for a minute to see how it looked and my son, Dylan, thought it didn't quite look right, because it threw things off balance, putting the title to the right rather than being in the center like it is now. I may still insert it up there, but make it smaller. We'll see. I think I am always hesitant to make permanent changes, because I like to leave much of myself (on display) undefined....without constraint....limitless...ever changing... The great thing about having a blog though, is the fact that nothing has to permanent. I could leave it there for a day or a year. :)
Friday, September 26, 2008
Get written contracts... never verbal.
Although verbal contracts are supposed to be legally binding...
And you have, as evidence, a recorded voicemail in which the defendant admits three times in it that he "knows he committed to you, but now has a tight budget and can't turn a blind eye to an unforeseen better deal ."
And a written transcript of the voicemail.
Apparently, when you have court at 9:00 PM with a harried female judge who receives not one, but two calls in the courtroom from her home during the trial... "I know...I'm hurrying. I'll be home soon. I'm on a drywall case." Obviously not giving full attention to the message and only glancing at the transcript, well, verbal contracts just aren't what they're cracked up to be.
Monday, September 22, 2008
Saturday, September 06, 2008


It is with a heavy heart that I write this post. My cute little butterfly that I've had on this blog since the beginning is...is...is...just...*sniff*...somehow...has just gone away. If you don't remember my butterfly, well, it was a unique little animated sitemeter/statcounter that floated around my blog, just hanging out, counting my visitors. It made me happy (it's the little things). It always fluttered about quite naturally and seemed to consciously take in whatever post or picture it temporarily landed on.
Somehow it felt like it kept my blog company when I wasn't here, and was always hanging around here to greet me and others stopping by. I had even written tongue in cheek over on my sidebar, "does anyone see a butterfly flying...?" Well, today something seemed different here. Off.
What was it? Finally it hit me. I looked in my template area and saw everything was as it should be. Saw the code and the URL (softwarewings.com) that I had gotten it from, but it wasn't working on here anymore. How long had it been missing? I tried going to the site itself and it no longer exists. *sigh* Searched on Google to no avail. I felt that I had to acknowledge my little friend on here....and say farewell. Maybe it won't be forever. I still have hope.
Sunday, August 24, 2008
Don't let that look fool you. Jason was absolutely reveling in the attention. :) We took him and Ashley out for dinner at our favorite Mexican restaurant and he checked with me ahead of time- "You are going to tell them it's my birthday?" "They're going to sing and put a Sombrero on me, right?" Then he kept looking around expectantly and grinned from ear to ear when his moment arrived. :) Happy Birthday, Sweetie.
Friday, August 22, 2008
Thinking I'll do a Haiku
Make up as I go
Birthday coming up
Jason will be 21
I can't believe it!
Dylan's a freshman
Even harder to believe
Time is flying fast
Monday, July 28, 2008
Tuesday, July 15, 2008

We seem to be involved in a little chess match with Garrison. I would post the latest details, but I think I should wait until the matter is settled. We've learned that we can't underestimate him, but he has certainly learned the same thing about us, as well. :D And I like our attorney. He's cool. In the game of chess, he is our Queen. :)
Saturday, July 12, 2008
Monday, July 07, 2008

Sincerely,
"us"
****Drywall is scheduled for delivery on ------- 2008 per our discussion. Please contact me by Tuesday if this needs to change
Rick:
I will call you tomorrow, but a personal friend gave me an estimate on the drywall far less expensive than your quote.
Garrison,
As you are aware, we are not a framing company and did the framing only as a favor to you with full understanding that we were guaranteed the drywall work. We made absolutely nothing and it actually cost us money. Because you asked us to, we even added additional custom framing of shelves, extra walls and a theater stage at an extreme minimal cost to you, that you could not achieve anywhere else. We also consulted for you; sending other contractors for electrical and plumbing.
Garrison, on a personal level **our attorney's suggested statement, times are tough right now and we were really counting on that income. We gave you an excellent price on the drywall just to obtain your business in the first place. We were already making less of a profit than anticipated due to the unexpected cost we incurred from doing the framing so cheaply for you. Hopefully we can resolve this in an amicable way, as we only want to receive just pay for our efforts.
Rick:
I understand where your coming from; however, the framing work was not based on a guarantee to do the drywall job from my vantage point. If this were the case I would have definitely signed a contract with you. With that said, I am not stating that we don’t want to use your organization, but as you stated with today’s challenging financial times money is an issue for most everyone. We have many things we must consider in a budget each year and with the increase cost in the framing every penny needs to count for us. As I recall, when I originally walked through the framing job with Patrick I am certain I explained that we designated the one room as a home theatre with the platform (in other words, I thought this was included in your original quote). However, when I saw this wasn’t being worked on as Patrick was nearing the end of his work, I asked about it. Patrick stated that he didn’t recall this being mentioned and I never pushed the issue. The only additional framing that I requested was the build out for the projection screen and speakers.
In any case, all I’m looking for is some reconsideration on the pricing for the drywall job. If this can be done great! If not, I will have to consider the other option. If we cannot come to terms and you lost money on the framing job I will be glad to reimburse you a reasonable amount to provide you profit for that job. However, I would ask that you take a look at the numbers again and re-quote the job. There is nothing personal about this at all, it is purely a business decision that must be made. And at the end of the day, I am sure you have deal with issues like this every day in business just as I do. My company has received several verbal intentions of us serving a new client without them actually coming aboard. And this is exactly what I gave you a verbal intention to do business.
So please understand there is no anger or animosity on my end, but I have to be mindful of every dollar spent on this project. I look forward to hearing back from you soon.
Garrison
Garrison,
We cannot adjust our price on the drywall at all. We charged you builders production pricing, which is far less than residential homeowner pricing. As far as fair payment on the framing with you allowing your friend to do the drywall, we cannot take anything less than $800 dollars compensation for the loss on the framing. I tried to call you a few minutes ago. I'm available if you'd like to talk on the phone.
Regards,
Rickey
Rickey:
I will contact you sometime tomorrow morning. However, I don’t see $800 as a reasonable amount. If you’ll recall I did receive other estimates on all phases of the job and your original framing bid was somewhat competitive with everyone else (keep in mind that everyone’s bid did include the home theater build out) . However, if you add $800 to the job it is not competitive at all. It just wouldn’t be prudent of me to do this. If you were looking at this from my perspective I would think you could see why I have to consider the other option provided the other person will do an exceptional job.
Let me put it this way. If you were to bring your vehicle into a couple of shops for a quote for repairs or mods and although you knew that both quotes were higher than you expected, you still intend to go with one of them based on your belief in their work and the cost. However, while the shop you intend to go with is doing an oil and filter change on your vehicle your discussing with your friend the situation with the vehicle. He then says that he wished you would have thought of him because he could do the job for far less and you already know his quality of work. Unless you just had money to burn, you would more than likely let the shop know that although you intended to have them do the mods or repairs you found someone else that can do the job at a lower cost. You would probably even give them a chance to match the other price or at least come closer to it. But, I doubt you would ignore the other offer. In this same scenario, if the shop owner told you that he took a big loss on the oil/filter change because he expected to have the repair/mod job, you would probably be somewhat skeptical of this.
Now I understand that small business owners will do various jobs/offer services at a breakeven point in order to win a bigger project. We even take small losses for this type of opportunity, but to claim that your loss was anywhere near $800 just doesn’t seem right.
Garrison,
We need to know what you've decided based on our conversation yesterday.
Thank you,
Rickey
Rickey:
I discussed everything with ym wife, and we believe it is best that we remain with our current team of workers for the drywall prjoect.
Garrison,
We still need to resolve the outstanding balance you owe to us. We have been advised by our attorney last week that we have a solid legal claim against you. You even stated in your voicemail that you understood that you had verbally committed to us, which is legally binding. At this point, I will settle for the $800 dollars in lost income from the framing that we've already discussed, or I will pursue all other legal options to collect the full amount.
I never committed to anything. However, we will be in touch after hearing back from our Lawyer. Have a good day!
Garrison's BlackBerry
Synopsis to our attorney:
We were called by Garrison xxxx from a flyer to possibly install drywall in his basement. We personally met him at a subdivision we do work in and showed him our company's work. We gave him a written estimate and he later accepted our bid verbally. He told us he had gotten several other bids, and we were the cheapest. He said he liked our work and he was going with us.
He indicated several phases that needed to be done in his basement just prior to us installing the sheetrock and indicated he would really appreciate any assistance. We then referred several contractors to him (electrical, plumbing, HVAC) and called several framing companies and found that the cheapest price was for more than what we could pay one of our employees to frame, which would save him money. The framing company could frame the job in one day--our guy would take approx. 4 days. Garrison opted to save money and use our guy for less money, but then added several change orders for additional framing and our guy ended up spending nearly two weeks there. We made minimal adjustments to his framing bill, (which he paid in intervals) for far less than framing companies would have charged. We actually lost money.
We would have never given these discounts without having been hired for the drywall.
Garrison never indicated at any point that there was even a possibility that our company wouldn't be installing drywall. Several witnesses heard many indications as to us having the job, including Garrison expressing the date that we could have the sheetrock delivered to his house. He also recently left a voicemail that we have saved, stating "I know I more or less gave a verbal agreement, but my budget is tight due to auditing by the state." and that he found a cheaper guy, his friend, to do the work.
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
I have been tagged to do a meme by Charles. Click his name to see his answers, as well.
1. Grab the nearest book. If you are currently reading something, that'll be fine too. The Element Encyclopedia Of 20,000 Dreams
2. Open the book to page 123. ok
3. Find the fifth sentence. ok
4. Post the text of the next 4 sentences on your Blog along with these instructions. 'If a building is under construction or being demolished, this refers to your own ability to constuct and destroy your life. If the bulding is familiar, the reference may be to the actual building itself; for example, if you dream of a structural fault, you might want to get the design checked out. If the building you are exploring in your dream is a public building such as a factory, law court, prison and department store, the building often represents the function suggested by its nature, such as work, education and healing. Bear in mind, though, that if these images appear in your dreams, they will also have personal connections and feelings associated with those buildings.'
5. Don't you dare dig for that "cool" or "intellectual" book in your closet I know that is what you were thinking! I didn't...it was actually the second book , though, because the other one; 6 Minute Morning Stretching didn't have enough pages. :)
6. Tag 5 people. I don't even have 5 blog people to tag :( Everyone has abandoned their blogs. I will have to focus on making some more blogger friends....
Monday, June 09, 2008

Okay, I know for a fact that there are still a few random and regular visitors stopping by this blog. And I know this only because of my informative little sitemeter thingy. It mainly notifies me that I am, by far, the most frequent visitor of all. :) Why do I still stop by even though I'm not updating...who knows...
My extreme lack of posting has definitely effected the visitor count, but nonetheless, I want to let everyone know about SupernaturalBlond, a new celebrity gossip (and more) blog. Lennox Miller, an actress and model (she has appeared in Maxim and FHM and national ad campaigns) is the creator/writer of this blog and she not only keeps you in the know by posting the stuff you want to hear about, she also keeps it visually entertaining for guys with a lot of "candy" for the eyes.
In addition to acting and modeling, she is a Communication Specialist at CDC and has an MPH degree. She recently made a career-changing decision to go into Marketing and is back in school for her MBA. She's also an extreme girlie-girl; addicted to Sephora and beauty products in general. The site is still in development and will include celebrity gossip, beauty tips & advice, and much more.
Check it out HERE










